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Original Text
Give Them the Love They Really Want
Here's a thing about relationships that might surprise you. We sometimes think that because we've been with someone for a while, we totally get what they need. So, we start giving them what we think they should want—usually the same things we want. Seems logical, right? But then they're not happy at all about our "gifts," and we're like, "How can you not be more grateful after all I've done for you?" Even if you ask them what they want directly, they probably won't know. So, how do you figure it out? Simple! Just notice what they always do for you. For example, if they constantly tell you, "I love you," they need you to do the same. Alternatively, if they always hug or kiss you, that's what they need you to do, too! Wanna be happy? Give them what they truly want, and it's a done deal.
Translation
给他们真正想要的爱
关于爱情,有件事可能会让你感到惊讶。有时我们会认为,因为我们已 经和一个人在一起好一段时间了,应该都完全知道他们需要什么。于是 开始给他们,我们认为他们应该会想要的东西──通常也是我们想要的。听起来合乎逻辑,对吧?但他们却对我们的「礼物」一点也不高兴,我们就会想,「我为你做了这么多,怎么还不感激呢?」即使你直 接问他们想要什么,他们可能也不知道。那么,你要怎么弄清楚呢?简单!你只要注意他们总是为你做什么。例如,如果他们常常对你说 「我爱你」,他们就需要你也这样对他们说。或者,如果他们总是拥抱或亲吻你,那也是他们需要你这样对他们做!想要快乐吗?给他们真正 想要的东西,事情就圆满解决了。
Take Away
这些词汇和短语不仅在口语中可以灵活应用,在写作中也能帮助传达更丰富的意思和感情。通过记住和练习这些表达,你能够更自如地表达思想和情感。
重点词汇
- relationships(n. 关系)
- logical(adj. 合乎逻辑的)
- alternatively (adv. 要不,或者)
同义词和反义词:
- grateful - thankful, appreciative / ungrateful, resentful
- notice - observe, perceive / ignore, overlook
短语的解读和应用
1. get what they need
🔸含义: 理解他们的需求。
🔹例句: After years of marriage, I feel like I really get what my partner needs.
2. give them what they should want
🔸含义: 提供他们应该渴望的东西。
🔹例句: Sometimes, we mistakenly give our friends what we think they should want.
3. be more grateful
🔸含义: 更加感激。
🔹例句: It's important to express how grateful you are for someone's efforts.
4. notice what they do for you
🔸含义: 注意他们为你所做的事情。
🔹例句: I try to notice the little things my partner does for me every day.
5. wanna be happy?
🔸含义: 想要快乐吗?
🔹例句: If you wanna be happy, focus on what truly matters to you.
Retelling
学完这篇短文后,请根据以下问题进行复述练习
Q:How can you understand what your partner really wants?